Added: Nov 19, 2008
From: MeikoElias
Duration: 4:0
3 year transition video
Channel: People
Tags: ftm gay genderfluid genderqueer lesbian lgbt onetruemedia tranny transboi transgender transguy transman
Rating: 4.90 (82 ratings) Views: 11639' favoriteCount='100 Comments: 25
CatCommunication Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - Hi Meiko, I was showing my husband this video, just for our own personal edification about transgenderism, and he commented that he'd think it must be traumatic in some way for a ftm to have top surgery, no matter how you felt about your body/gender. Do you have any thoughts on that? (If not, I realize its very personal, so please accept my apology if you feel this is too private to ask.)
quinthe1st Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - You are full of so much wisdom. I just wanted to say that I really love this video.
randithepirate Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I'm not Meiko, just giving my own answer.Maybe physically traumatic in the sense that it's a major surgery but I'd say the real trauma was when the started growing there in the first place.I mean, if your husband grew breasts one day (sorry for the image :P) would it be traumatic to him to have them removed?
MeikoElias Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I'd have to agree with randithepirate. Having your breasts removed and chest reconstructed is major surgery. So the healing is traumatic to the body, and having to sacrifice nerve sensation to have the chest you feel is natural for your body, but the loss of body fat in that area did not prove traumatic emotionally/psychologically... at least for me.
CatCommunication Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - (I probably should've addressed my question to anyone who wished to answer... Your reply is no less valuable because you're not Meiko! :)He says he meant like emotional trauma, simply because its a part of your body.
CatCommunication Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I guess its just hard to imagine being that detached from one's own body... Proof positive that anyone who thinks tg is 'not real' or 'all in the head' is just ignorant, huh? :)
EddieOchJag Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - beautiful video
Yarick90 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - Hi!....Which band is singin' this song?
prajetchik Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I LOVE THA NIPPLE TATS!!!!
usamuun Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I'm sorry to post such a shallow comment when the majority if your videos are for real, serious thoughts and questions. But...You are absolutely gorgeous. It's a little strange... because I'm not easily attracted to people, but you are... wow. You are one of the most attractive men or women... people... I have ever seen. Some of the photos in that slideshow seriously could fool people into thinking you were a model or movie star if they didn't know otherwise.Okay. I'm done now ^_^;
charley1288 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - As much as I loved this I wish you had some of you smiling.The tattoos are awesome and hot by the way.
michkath1981 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - you are so damn hot!!!
Traxxmeister Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - So very COOL!
abcdb123 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - you are a beautiful human being.
kellystevens82 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I have been inspired by you. Thanks.
AresQueer Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - you are beautiful....
MichealTogg Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - If I can answer, too...?After surgery, once I go tpast the physical problems I had with the drugs I got, I honestly forgot for a time what it had felt like to have breasts at all. It just felt that natural to have a flat chest. I think of it as if I had been wearing false breasts for a long time, and now my chest is finally bare, and the feeling is beyond even enjoying it - I have to try not to take it for granted! It's easy to forget I ever even had them at all.Just wanted to say that. :)
MeikoElias Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I completely agree. Sometimes I try and remember what it even felt like to have breasts, because it's not something I miss. Like the reverse is true for my lower half. Even though I wasn't born with that organ I still feel it. But not my breasts.
laidbaqq Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - xxboys? I liked that picture.. and all of your pics were nice btw.. but thats an interesting transition.. at any point, did you feel it was moving too slow?And I too wish to one day have my breasts removed but the first step I need to take is coming out to my family..
NukeySama Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - What do you do for xxboys? And how can you join?
MeikoElias Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - I don't do anything for xxboys. I submitted a picture about few months back for a photo contest, but that's it.
porelgrancarajo Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - you are so beautiful. cool from Chile ... kisses!!
PhotogenicKid Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - WOW!!!!!!! ur HANSOME!! =]
BadKittyKat22 Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - Wow! Truly amazing! You must feel so free! You must feel so....YOU!!!
iwant2smile Says:
Nov 19, 2008 - Beautiful! It always give me such confidence when i see people who are unafraid to be who they are. Makes me wish even more so that i had the courage and strength to say "this is me!!"thank you